There will defo be issues and concerns regarding faithlessness, as Gemini males are often butterflies flitting from flower to flower chasing that honey, lol!!! So Im confused about being confused lol Im dating someone all of our planets are 12th house but my natal chart is 12th house filled already.. everyone in his family knows about me and everyone in my family knows about him they know were also expecting a baby and so does social media lol .. He might love you but in his own way. like sort of obession, that I can not let go off. No idea if I appear in his?! Topic: Venus in 12th house Synastry: KarkaQueen Knowflake . Leave no traces where you can be found, as these BAD 12th-Housers seem to be emotional vampires, and thus really get off on feeding off of YOU, your fears and trepidation. Posts: 2196 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011: posted March 08, 2013 01:12 PM . I don't know if I am able to, honestly.This really feels like karmic bond. Venus is the Roman counterpart to the Greek goddess, Aphrodite, and she is the female counterpart of the Roman god of war and conquest, Mars, who is also the namesake of one of the big eight planets in astrology. And also what are your thoughts on Venus in the 12th composite chart vs the synastry chart? lol He also has his Mercury conjuncting my Sun in the 8th house and his Venus conjuncts my Venus as well as his Mars conjuncts my Mars. Feel free to elaborate in the comments. He said, he hadn't and he just hoped we could be good friends when he returned. I can confirm that he appears in my dreams often and usually these are precognitive dreams. I no longer see our reflection of each other I only see himself popping up in my mind here and there, but he now seems dark, untrustworthy, and truly not worth my time. He left few weeks after we met for a travel for six months. His Moon squares my NN. What do you think? This would extend to all aspects of life from music to clothes to cars to home furnishings. The Sun person sees in the 11th house person someone, who they can spend pleasant time with. Am THANKFUL that it finally ended, but at the same time I value the lessons learned from our dance. It felt a bit cruel because he acted as if he was so I felt led on as he observed me slowly falling in love Anyway With my heavy Saturn influence ( Venus in cancer in 10th opposite Saturn + stellium in 4th house) I dont do well with non committed relationships and I felt what he did lacked integrity so I just left it there as I would not have been fulfilled. In re: to the 12th House attractions, not surprisingly, I always attract Gemini natives mostly Lunar Geminis, or those with Gemini strongly paced in their chart; i.e., Mercury, Venus or Mars. Tabitha has Venus in 12th House Pisces. We have other aspects in synastry that are more positive, but the Mars issues come up a lot. thus I didnt want to be like him. Venus-Uranus in Synastry May 10, 2013 astrologyplace Those with Venus conjunct, square, or opposite Uranus in Synastry create exciting sparks in relationships. I feel you, kak.. Im the planet person, in which im the venus, he's the house person. Someone help Ive done so much research on this but I was with this guy for like a year and then he ghosted me, disappeared deleted all social media, but I still dream about him and think about him frequently and its been 3 years. Whats the deal? It rules creativity, beauty, diplomacy the arts and is representative of our physical and tangible . His Mars is conjunct my Moon and North Lunar Node which made it all the more compelling; his Neptune/Scorpio (which is Retrograde) is conjunct my 5th House Venus, and his Uranus and Pluto fall in my 3rd House where my IC is. The last one who was a crush had his Leo sun in my 12th. He doesnt want a relationship but he wants you to feed some unstated emotional void so he keeps you strung along with longing stares and subtle flirtations. In fact, I was his spiritual company for more than the twenty years we spent apart. and in only one instance where the connection has lasted throughout many years with us now being friends, of sorts. where is your Neptune? People who are willing to fully trust can let themselves loose in the 12th house if you show hesitation than it can make a big difference. =). What does it mean, and how does it affectthings? Its possible the blind spot is yours, not his. Yes gifts can be found, but contrarily mental illness, sexual issues, drugs and alchohol issues, you name it it's all here too. What he did to you was cowardly. The descriptions of 12th house Venus in synastry always ring true for me, but I'm always the house person, so it totally sucks being so affected by someone who hides their feelings. Sometimes in teh beginng this house can be overwhelming for some becasue it's like you can see into each others soul. I am an independent person and this is killing me emotionally, physically and psychologically! Venus in 12th House Synastry Overlay If your Venus is in your partner's 12th house of a synastry overlay, you find yourself deeply moved in strange ways by the house person. My moon falls in someone's 12th house. Here is a formula: Unless a guy acknowledges his feelings for you within a month, maybe 2 months (or 10+ dates) of serious dating openly, plainly, simply, without subtext, without mindgames or alternate plan Bs in his head,drop him. Or someone is misleading someone (deliberately or otherwise). Yet and still I have been in love with him for going on over 2 years. Lifelong, apparently Dad was a Sun/Gemini, Mom was a Sun/Scorpio the WORST connective relationship ever! I can relate to most that has been said: Psychic, Fated, Spiritual, highly-accepting, Secretive & perhaps in ways obsessional/unrequited. It may not display this or other websites correctly. If he is also your 12th Houser, please know that anything with him will be brief, for the most part, or there will be a series of back-and-forth connections with intervals of his ghosting you for long periods. I dont want him anymore as he rejected me but I cant help but stop thinking about him. The Venus person will like the way you conduct yourself, your . So the conversations might be heavy and deep, or they are at least exposing of one whether good or bad. But I always wonder if he feels the same because the 12th house is illusive, So many sites / people say that it is only the house person that will be affected / obsessed. Posts: 354From: united statesRegistered: May 2009, Copyright 2000-2014 The 12th House & Synastry When you have a 12th house connection in synastry and your natal planets fall in their 12th house, this can make you have difficulties expressing whatever that planet governs in the relationship (or vice versa if it's their natal planet falling in your 12th house). Birthday Report Package Deluxe Transit Report 1 Year Get A Natal Chart ReportProgressed Chart Report Deluxe Asteroids Report Get A Solar Return Report Get A Lunar Return Report Child Natal Report 1 Year Transit Report Outer Planets, Find Your Soulmate Saturn Transit the 12th House Using Astrology To Get What You Want, Predicting Violence In Relationship: Mars in Synastry. And it is an easy relationship. i, how ever, have only dreamt of someone who has moon in my 12th .the other person i have dreamt of has nothing in my 12th. this also sounds a bit like my own synastry with a crazy Sun/Gem Moon/Sag man. Sometimes it's strange and you can't make sense of it. In fact, Venus is considered another guru in astrology besides Jupiter, which become exalted in the most spiritual sign Pisces. I'm currently talking to someone where my Moon, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter fall into their 12th house. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. You are using an out of date browser. My boyfriends cancer venus is in my 12th house. Also VenusianMoon, the outside person (your boyfriend?) Venus is considered a Benefic, which means that this planet tends to bring good fortune. Venus Conjunct Pluto Synastry. But he is confused how I feel this way without needing anything. Jupiter i Mars is aggressive by nature but the sign and house, and aspects made to him will alter how he plays out in synastry. I often attract men who has Leo personal planets which falls in my 12th house. It was a relationship that brought up many subconscious issues for both, but also very intimate, we shared a lot of stuff wed never shared with anyone before. I love everything about astrology. afterall i suspected him of being phony and saw a fakeness in his eyes.it's not that i have not learned from the previous lesson. Its been a year since we last saw each other and 5 months since we last spoke. However,from reading the comments here, it seems that the planet person can be just as affected as the house person. I can feel him, seeing many good things in him that he never aware. Now, the twelfth house is a tricky house when it is activated in synastry. i guess if the house person is non-scorpionic, or less-scorpionic perhaps, they won't run away scared because they feel they are exposed, lol If the house person is heavy-scorpio people, hmm don't even think aboutt having relationship with this peeps, they will ruuuuunnnn away asap no matter how much you mean to them. He knows exactly how I feel about him because I've told him precisely and he doesn't feel the same way but he is always so concerned about if I'm dating/talking with anyone. He acts like hes in love with me, he acts like he cares deeply for me, hes there for me and has even held me while I cried. few months later he married her. I also faced this same situation from my present crush whom he married with the woman same as my first ex BF criteria. He got married, told me so and yet said that nothing will change. I made our synastry. You're in love with the "idea" of each other, if that makes any sense. Pluto in your partners 1st This placement can be very powerful between two people that are attracted to each other in a love relat Jupiter in synastry represents where we will inspire, encourage and instill faith in our partners, and even addthem luck. My 12th house Saturn conjunct his NN and His Chiron and Saturn conjunct my NN. With your partner's Venus in your 12th house, you are drawn to and captivated by your significant other. I really have no idea whats going on but we have crazy placements, if anyone wants to discuss further please let me know!! And the worst part is I cant tell if hes going to be my salvation or my greatest self sabotage and final, complete ruination of my life. Although my guy is very vulnerable with me as well, he is still more controlled than I, in the sharing of deeper things (probably his Scorp rising). His Moon is in my 12th House, and my Venus is in HIS 12th House, thus I felt captured by him. Feeling an intense attraction but beyond the physical, even that he was the personification for what I find attractive in the opposite sex. Am thankful that noting bad occurred from him, but there was the feeling that he could and would hurt me. What he/she hates in something, i can see that they do the same thing, but they cant see it. If you Love this person, let destiny take its course and have faith in divine/universal timing. It's all about 12th house. As if something beyond ourself is guiding us.what is this shit, ive been asking me many many timesand is there a way to get over this?? I think that aspect makes you see what you want to see in the other person, but not what is actually there. NO THANKS!!! His Venus squares my Vertex. This woman matched all of his criteria (tall, slim & fair). I dont feel he doesnt love me enough. Venus is the planet of love which makes him lovable by his likable behavior and persuasive way of talking. However I have to say until now he has been writing twice a year sending me wishes bday and Xmas. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. Boy did WE clash, but seemingly there were no 12th House synastries between us. His mars is in my 12th house. Negatively, the planet person can use any of these fears as a way to control them, manipulate them or to use against them in some way. Me and my fianc has this. Especially natal charts and composite charts. He is much older than me, far better positioned, with flaws, yet a hero to me. Ive cut our contact channels. This could be the unconditional kind of love people look for, its about whether or not you can handle it. Lol. In future, i'll try to do some research about this mysterious house according to my religion. JavaScript is disabled. Im afraid he would stifle me and kill my spirit from the inside out. No way, jose. This house holds many lifetimes of memories. The 12th house is about secrets, fears, the subconscious, criminal activity, spirituality, ghosts, dreams, meditation, retreat, solitude, imprisonment, museums, hospitals, institutions, merging, imagination, the intangible, secrets, and the ways that you sabotage yourself. It was a weird sort of dance, attract/ repulse. On top of this, his Pluto is either square or conjunction my NN, Im pretty sure its the square. My Venus conjunct his north node in 12 Pisces , and his Venus conjunct my vertex on desc ..From my part, I felt the karmic connexion.I was sure I need to do something with him, teach him something, Learn something from him..and I felt the sexual attraction also ( we have Sun/Pluto in 8 Scorpio) but,guess what? It's much like a therapist/patient relationship. That said, I do know something about this. Knowflake. Gah! As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheavenif somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, Im gone. when i came back there was this weird thing between us.