i have the same problem, i had this boy his name is lebo at first he told me that his not with the baby mama and out of the blue he told me the baby mama is back in his life.i stoped calling him and he called to ask me to give him R100.what can i do. The term was first used in the early 1900s and its popular use is rooted in the work of theorists and child development researchers such as Sigmund Freud and . I know that men dont tell their baby mom's or ex's anything, just let them be, try to be nice or civil for the kids, but sometimes these women need to get it through their brains that its over. He is a cake eater. Remember that communication is essential to . So that happend a month later he FaceTimes me I pick up he says he just wanted to see me. On top of co-parents underestimating the impact having a child with someone can have on future relationships, those who date people with children also underestimate all that can come with such situations. Her father does not pay chid support owes back pay over $40k. If he doesnt, it sounds like a continuous headache waiting to happen for the woman I know, who really deserves better. Now he goes out at night with this girl and in his phone talking to 3 more . I got out to find out she was pregnant by 1 of my friends! I, however, am the nickname type. No. It helped me though thNKS, It depends on the people. I had given it everything I had. Y'all both getting played and you getting played worse than his new girl. I get along with her to show my son the right way to treat females. In No Contact phase with married man, but what now? Whereas, if he shows multiple signs of attraction in his body language then it would be more likely that he actually is attracted to you. Don't ask to see his daughter and then tells ppl that I don't let him see his daughter..Maybe all that time, he was just scare to say what he wanted to say. When she knows that all she has to do is send . I had a miscarriage shortly after that. They like ages between 21-25. Is okay so recently he told the kids he would take them to the movies but he never asked the kids what type of movie they wanted to see he bought the tickets and our kids paid no mind to the fact that they didnt know what movie they were going to see until they got to the theatre so when they get there he has a fit because his wife his wifes kids who are his step kids they dont have kids of their own made decision to watch a movie that they all agree on I guess while our kids whom he made plans with were not in on this movie decision making. I don't get it . No body is perfect so you cannot blame people for that. This son of a bitch could have came in the toilet or on the floor but didnt so I have to live with the biggest mistake i ever made i regret the day i ever met him and if i could take it all back i would. It amazes me how people can point out others faults, but fail to realize you made bad choices also. hes proly tryna stop a fight from happening. Speak up, tell him how you feel and if he doesn't take a stand then you know that he really isnt worth it. I did it again. Realistically if i didnt have a daughter with her i wouldnt mind her getting hit by a train. If you have been dating him for a while then the reason that he calls you mama could be that he thinks that you are his girlfriend. I don't need anything from him but him. I can never trust this biych ever again and I wish she would leave me alone . She cheated 2x. He says he loves her now because they are having a child together and he can't let his child to be in a broken home. I realized that any anger a guy shows towards his child's mother is lost love a feeling of betrayal because he once loved her, it's best to foster love and respect for each other though regardless. But there are some that do get over the relationship and the love. Especially when u find someone who is better at loving you than anyone else was. She isnt his ex. Because even if shecant be No. What's funny he doesn't realize how good he has it. Between the two of them they are always arguing or in some fight every few days. He had a girlfriend here in the UK, but his fiance was back home, awaiting immigration stuff. Six freaking years. My thing is, if I wanted my daughters father I could VERY WELL have him! I don't think I could ever be in another relationship with another woman! He's a grown ass man. Phone convos? Bridget Yvonnel. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months. I will always love my baby mama. Our biggest issue is that he's allergic to my cat. You don't have to be on welfare to access birth control. He has broken so many promises to our daughter. the cop out story only works on idiots. My question why does my ex insist on having sex with me if he is so happy with his new girlfriend. Of course she thinks he was single and I made the mistake of contacting her after I found out about his cheating but naturally she believes him. No. My bf is like that in front of me he gets pissed off at her and talked so much shit but baby momma says there hooking up and he wants to be a family again he wants to strangle her but also may love her ? There is also the respect factor when deals with another man's kids. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now, he has a child with his ex but he told me their relationship ended long time ago. How am I suppose to feel about that? How could anyone with respect for themselves or their body have a child with a man that is not married to them or that they were not in a very long relationship with? I do feel you on this situation. Well she sure did drop the tea , I end up asking him , and he never denied it , but he never said anything either. If your eyes and ears are telling you that things between your man and his "baby mama" are not over and done, then no matter what he's telling you, you know what the truth is. Trust your gut. Reach out to the bm and get to know her for yourself. SMH. We all need to love ourselves more so we don't hurt our children and continue the cycle. My gut says he is full of it, but his story is possible. Then he knocked 2 women up: one didn't keep the baby; the other said if he'd be there to help her she'd keep the baby (he forwarded the messages to me including the pic of the pregnancy test she text him). AS AN AMAZON ASSOCIATE, Body Language Central EARNS FROM QUALIFYING PURCHASES. My boyfriend has now told me that I cant text him or call him after 7(after work) because he doesn't want the baby mama to know that he has a girlfriend because he says she could take the child and move somewhere else with out telling him. It isnt love. I'm all ears, but until this day, he stalks me alittle and still calls. The consent submitted will only be used for data processing originating from this website. What you did wrong was allow his behavior in the first place. cuz sweet heart you are no better than they are. This post will help you understand why he called you mama and help you understand why other guys would call you mama in the future. Lmao ok that makes sense. This dude barely ever get dressed not even for me. International custody disputes are a big hot mess. Question for the men. It is really not the most common term of endearment, but calling someone "baby mama" or "baby daddy" is a pet name of sorts. He__acts more respectable and mature__ when you're around. I have seen this many times when I was dating. 1 in his romantic life, which doesnt seem to be the case right now. 13years in and I never betrayed his trust! She was upset with him because if any of his bm's call, he'd talk to them in her presence, but every time he called me or I called him, he left. Dealing with your boyfriend's baby mama is sometimes not a pleasant experience, unless she is a very selfless woman. Trust, If you truly love this dude then talk to your bd in private about the kids Men are very territorial and regardless if a woman has a bd or not they dont like other men talking to their women. But he's careless . I'm confused and hurt and in love. Last summer we had a bad falling out that lead me to move on with someone else. For me, I don't think my boyfriend is "in love" with the mother of his children but he does have love for her and care for her for the simple fact she's the mother of his two kids. The person who posted on here earlier this year. The same goes for texting her. Ladies if he does and doesnt provide in any way..he is not the one! If your boyfriend is confident, charming, and persuasive, you might think you've hit the jackpot. It was a hot mess but I made sure he heard my take on all this because he barely spend s time with his kids and I dont nag him about it kids will learn one way or the other who their parent is down the line but Im just so fed up I dont know if all this has to do with the stupidness that happen because if it does its so ridicuous all because hes married. Here are 10 things it means when a guy calls you Mama: 1. 3. She stayed in Honduras, whilst he set up a home for her and the baby. We have kids here people. 15 His Communication With Her Is Different From Other Friends. Spanish Terms of Endearment for Male Lover. For others, it's a deep hatred or a lasting love. Ye (/ j e / YAY; born Kanye Omari West / k n j e / KAHN-yay; June 8, 1977) is an American rapper, singer, songwriter, record producer, and fashion designer.. Born in Atlanta and raised in Chicago, West gained recognition as a producer for Roc-A-Fella Records in the early 2000s, producing singles for several artists and developing the "chipmunk soul" sampling style. black entertainment news, parenting tips and beauty secrets that are specifically for black women. Take the initiative and tune out your mind or heart telling you that youd drop everything on a dime if she wanted you. Reply. I feel selfish for telling her how I feel but I keep my mouth shut. Last month i had a wake up call and had to just end it after his child's 3rd bday. Wear granny panties to bed. Have you bought cars or apartments for any of your exes? Hes Making It Clear He Wants Children with You, Its His Way of Saying Hes Committed to You. He wants to run around , and be with multiple girls and imagine he gets one pregnant, they won't even hesitate to put him on childsupport .he'll be ****ed cause he ain't got a job. A local ATL radio personality, Traci Steele, has a son with Chris Brown's DJ, DJ Babey Drew. I can relate! Why don't you upgrade to a nice stable upper class life? I could tell you countless stories about this. To have my daughter call my name and know that I'm only a few rooms away. But it us only a territorial response on his part. However, the difference is she knew he had a fiance, she was just living in hope that she's never make it over to England, because it took about 3 years. I'm only 24 and he's 35 , and his bm is 25 , everyone say I need to move on and let go. Birth control is readily available. Some of our partners may process your data as a part of their legitimate business interest without asking for consent. If he did call you mama because he is attracted to you then it would be likely that he would show signs of attraction in his body language and behavior which could include: Mirroring your own body language.